Today's lunchtime consisted of people gossiping about someone I cared about- and it made me think.
Why are people so shallow? Why must people know about the latest gossip about someone? Dang it, why do people even gossip about each other?
I honestly thought the people gossiping and the person gossiped about were good friends, why on earth do you have to talk about them behind their back?
So, maybe me blogging about this isn't any better, but at the very least I still love these people and I still see them as good friends.
Honestly though, having listened to the gossip, it made me quite scared that maybe I was gossiped about and I'd never know. If someone would turn their back on another person despite seeming to be good friends, I could only imagine the amount of people turning their back on me. And knowing this hurts.
I didn't like listening to the gossip and I genuinely think the girl who was gossiped about didn't deserve to be spoken about like that. People can be very harsh with their words, it hurts to just hear it, whether or not it's directed to you or not.
I know I'm a culprit of this too- I have gossiped about people, but having sat into a gossip session today, I don't think it's something I will be doing anymore. (Or at least trying not to do)
It'll take a lot of perseverance, but I know God will continually teach me to be loving towards the people around me. He will be the motivation for this, and I will strive fervently toward the goal of not gossiping, for the sake of His glory. Can't do it without God.
Why are people so shallow? Why must people know about the latest gossip about someone? Dang it, why do people even gossip about each other?
I honestly thought the people gossiping and the person gossiped about were good friends, why on earth do you have to talk about them behind their back?
So, maybe me blogging about this isn't any better, but at the very least I still love these people and I still see them as good friends.
Honestly though, having listened to the gossip, it made me quite scared that maybe I was gossiped about and I'd never know. If someone would turn their back on another person despite seeming to be good friends, I could only imagine the amount of people turning their back on me. And knowing this hurts.
I didn't like listening to the gossip and I genuinely think the girl who was gossiped about didn't deserve to be spoken about like that. People can be very harsh with their words, it hurts to just hear it, whether or not it's directed to you or not.
I know I'm a culprit of this too- I have gossiped about people, but having sat into a gossip session today, I don't think it's something I will be doing anymore. (Or at least trying not to do)
It'll take a lot of perseverance, but I know God will continually teach me to be loving towards the people around me. He will be the motivation for this, and I will strive fervently toward the goal of not gossiping, for the sake of His glory. Can't do it without God.
Comments
Post a Comment